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Friday, March 7, 2008

Home Improvements Turn Average Homes into Dreams Come True

TAMPA, FL If youre thinking about taking out a home improvement loan, there are several options to consider. First and foremost, your mortgage consultant needs to know why you want a home improvement loan. Here are some factors to take into consideration.

How long have you been in the home?
Will the improvements increase the property value?
Are you making improvements to increase energy efficiency?
Will improvements be made in one fell swoop, or in stages?
What is the current outstanding balance on your mortgage?
What is the appraised value of the home?
How much will the improvements cost?
What improvements will be tax deductible?
Do you have other revolving debt that you would like to pay off at the same time?
Are you making improvements because you plan to sell the property?

The New Tract Home Blues

Buyers of newly-built homes are often tapped out after making the initial down payment and closing costs, including upgrades to amenities and the inevitable need for new furniture. Shortly thereafter, they realize theyd like to make additional improvements to really have the home of their dreams.

If youre planning on putting down roots (pardon the pun), landscaping may be in order. The developer may have been kind enough to make the front yard a perky green, but if the back yard is a disturbing brown color sparse with weeds, you may be entertaining the vision of a pool or deck.

Look into the option of a Home Improvement Loan with a fixed interest rate as a 2nd Trust Deed. This type of loan does not require you to have equity built up in the existing mortgage. The maximum loan amount could go as high as 125% of the current appraised value of the home, and you can make the improvements yourself or go the extra mile and hire a contractor if the job requires architectural design, permits and inspections.


The Major Overhaul

If you have built up equity in your home and are geared up for some major renovation, the Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC) is probably your best bet. This adjustable loan allows you to use your equity as a line of credit, so if you have improvements that are phased in over time you can simply write a check when you need to pay a bill.

Its like a having a credit card with a much lower financing rate. In fact, the HELOC can be used for any reason at all even paying off that credit card debt. In most cases, this action turns that revolving debt payment into a tax deductible payment with a lower interest rate. The HELOC is generally a 2nd Trust Deed, unless it is used to pay off and replace the 1st Trust Deed.

A construction loan is an alternative to the HELOC for borrowers who dont want to use or dont have equity, and this type of financing can be used for construction on an existing dwelling. The lender will ask a lot more questions about what the borrower wants to do with the money, and the home owner will need architectural designs, permits and a licensed general contractor on board.

Construction loans are short-term loans that usually require interest-only payments until completion of construction, but the balance is due when construction is done. Most often, that is managed up front by setting up construction-to-perm financing. In this scenario, the loan is automatically rolled over into permanent financing at a fixed rate when construction is complete, and a rate-lock agreement can be purchased to carry the borrower through that period of construction.

Another option depending on the value of your home and local loan amount limitations is the FHA 203(k) Program. This financing is designed for the purchase or refinance and rehabilitation of properties that meet FHA guidelines. This is worth looking into if you need to bring a property up to compliance standards, finance eligible energy efficient improvements, or turn a single-family owner occupied dwelling into a duplex to accommodate Mom or Dad!

Just a Facelift, Please!

If you want to sell your home and you simply want to improve the curb appeal, it makes sense to go with a HELOC. Make sure you are aware of the current market value of homes in your area to make sure youre not going over the limit on the fair market value of your home. Youll want to get a return on your investment!

If youve had your home on the market too long and have not been able to sell, you might want to make some changes to give it a fresh new look and bring back the passion you once had for your home. Your mortgage consultant will help you weigh out your options for financing based on your outstanding mortgage balance, income and credit score.

Regardless of your reason for home improvement, make sure you share your goals with your mortgage consultant. He or she can walk you through the various loan options and confer with your tax advisor to make sure youre getting the best deal possible.

Leah Ross is affiliated with AmeriFirst Home Mortgage, a Licensed Mortgage Lender, State of Florida, Office of Financial Regulation. For free consultation and more information about mortgage loan programs, call Leah Ross at 813-643-8430 or vist http://www.amerifirstflorida.com.

Homosexual Dating - Truth and Connection

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so dont be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

Homosexuality is a form of love that needs not to be judged or explained, because it is just another example of how when you love someone it doesnt matter what colour their skin is, how old they are, or even what sex they are. True love knows no boundaries, has no discriminations and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.

Unfortunately, not everyone agrees with this idea of love, and due to this fact, many homosexuals, regardless if they are male or female, are made to feel alienated, which can often lead to feelings of depression or loneliness. There is no reason why you should let these feelings overcome you, or let other opinions of those you care about, such as family members or friends, negatively influence your life when it comes to finding love, relationships, and homosexual dating.

Homosexual dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do, enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.

Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating. This is only natural, simply because in order for you to connect with someone, it is important that you feel comfortable with them.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way. There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

Homosexual dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked. Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those who deserve it.

Frank Duru is the author of many different articles but his works concentrate much on dating related information,. such as Asian Dating - Respect and Honour, Only You Can Decide If Your Interracial Love Will Stand the Test of Time. Find More Mixed Race Relationship Articles Here.



Signs of Physical/Sexual Child Abuse in Adults

As an adult have you experiencedbut not limited to the following?


Little or no memory of childhoodage 3 to 12
Trouble with relationshipson the job, in your family,
Low self-esteem,
Panic attacksmild to severe,
Anxiety,
Phobias,
Depression,
Inability to trust or trusting indiscriminately,
alcohol/drug abuse,
Obsessive compulsive behavior,
Nightmares of being chased, trapped or surreal,
Sensory flashesunable to identify images,
Insomnia,
Suicidal thoughts or attempts,
A sense of going crazy or feeling unreal compared to others
Shame, guilt,
Sense of underlying humiliation,
Baseless crying,
Angry outbursts/rage seemingly for no reason,
Inability to recognize feelings,
Mood swings,
Emotional shut down,
Numbing or zoning out,
Arthritis/joint pain,
Diagnosis of ADD or ADHD,
Labeled an airhead
Chronic/acute fear,
Headaches/migraines,
Eating disordersanorexia, bulimia, obesity,
PMS,
Vaginismus,
Gastrointestinal/gynecological disorders,
Chronic fatigue,
MS,
Fibromyalgia,
Lupus
Chronic back painL3, L4 and/or L5 region
Cancerpredominatelyvaginal, cervical or ovarian in women; testicular, prostate in men; however cancer of any kind can be as a result of physical or sexual abuse. Cancer is anger/rage turned against the self.
Prostitute/promiscuous sex,
Inability to orgasm
Dissociative Identity DisorderMPD
Self-injuryself-abuse, self-mutilation (cutting, burning, breaking bones, pinching skin, ingesting, injecting and inserting foreign materials, interfering with the healing process of wounds, punching, slapping, picking skin, pulling hair, bloodletting, tattooing, piercing
Wearing baggy clothes or clothes a size or two sizes too large
Aversion to opposite sexincluding homosexuality/lesbian
Use of pornographyprint, video
Enjoy peep shows, topless dancers,
Become a porn star or pimp,
Sex offendersmale and female

Suggested Reading:

Heal Your Body, Louise L. Hay
The Courage to Heal, Ellen Bass and Laura Davis
Secret Survivors: Uncovering Incest and Its Aftereffects in Women, E. Sue Blume
Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child Laura Davis
Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: Societys Betrayal of the Child, Alice Miller
Breaking Down the Walls of Silence: The Liberating Experience of Facing Painful Truth Alice Miller
The Untouched Key: Tracing Childhood Trauma in Creativity and Destructiveness Alice Miller, et al
Banished Knowledge: Facing Childhood Injuries, Alice Miller
Trauma, Amnesia and the Denial of Abuse, Robert Falconer, et al., eds.
Victims No Longer: Men Recovering from Incest, Mike Lew
Wounded Boys, Heroic Men: A Mens Guide to Recovering from Child Abuse Daniel Sonkin
Broken Boys/Mending Men: Recovery from Child Sexual Abuse, Stephen GrubmanBlack
Female Sexual Abuse of Children, Michele Eliott, ed.
The Last Secret: Daughters Sexually Abused by Mothers, Bobbie Rosencrans

If you have experienced one or more of these 'symptoms' you could be a physical or sexual abuse survivor.

Healing the emotional wounds of physical or sexual abuse is possible. Talk therapy, antidepressants and/or antipsychotic drugs are inadequate to uncover the emotional pain, and heal the trauma trapped in muscles and tissue. To fully appreciate the depth of this pain, I will quote one of my clients, "Even my blood hurts." A multifaceted healing process specifically focused on physical and sexual abuse recovery and diligent work is the most effective; wherein the survivor can replenish their emotional and spiritual identity and empowerment.

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, author, "If I'd Only Known...Sexual Abuse in or Out of the Family: A Guide to Prevention, specializes in: Mind, Body, Spirit healing and Physical/Sexual Abuse Prevention and Recovery. As an inspirational leader, Dr. Neddermeyer empowers people to view life's challenges as an opportunity for Personal/Professional Growth and Spiritual Awakening. http://www.drdorothy.net